If you want to be happy, stop asking people these ten questions

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 In order to avoid embarrassment and save others in a crowded party, it is necessary to keep your unnecessary and harmful curiosity a little suppressed.

By the way, the question is half knowledge if it is to be understood, but if the purpose of the question is something else, then it may be due to the fact that you do not even know and hurt someone.

It is also possible that the question which you are considering to be straightforward may be heard by someone and even if there is any mischief.

What are the questions that can and do hurt a lot of people, then find out:

when will you Marry?

Hey, when we have to get married, we will do it without asking you, without asking your permission. If our mothers and fathers ask this question, it is appropriate, or those who are close to you in life, this question only applies to those who really love you.

How much is the celery?

It is one of the most difficult questions to ask. I mean, if the salary is low, will you help me financially, or if the salary is high, do you want a share? This question is by no means appropriate. No matter how much celery is, it should be halal. If you are interested in the rest, pray and not question.

How old is?

This question is as bitter for girls as it is for boys. I mean, no matter what age you are, what will you do? Stop growing or reduce age in NADRA records? And which arrow did you shoot when you were so old? Focus on your life, not our age.

When will you tell the good news?

The aunts ask the newlyweds and ask them in the next month when they will tell the good news. When will you make Papu? What does it mean to be in such a hurry, just got married yesterday, let them do it now, don't know why you are in such a hurry. Thankfully on the wedding day you didn't ask where your good news was.

Did you get the job?

This question is like piercing the unemployed. Hey, when the job is done, you will be told or you will be judged by yourself. If the job seeker is really looking for a job, then this question will be painful for him and if a hood is haraam, then there is no question of this question, leave it as it is.

How much do you earn?

You should not ask this question to a business person, if you want to know, you can guess from their lifestyle.  I mean, why this question? You have worked hard day and night and now that you are financially stable, who are you to ask questions?

Why have you gained so much weight?

One poor person is already worried (and rest assured that they will find out that they are gaining weight and they will be thinking of ways to solve this problem). Sprinkle salt on your wounds from above. They are embarrassing them by drawing their attention to them in a crowded party                                                                                                                                                  Why have the numbers come down?

This is a very painful question, especially for kids on board exams, and it's often asked by parents who have good grades for their children. By the way, the one whose result will be good will tell it himself or his father with some excuse. But if a child is not able to tell his result, it means that there is something wrong with the number, then let him go, why do you want to sprinkle salt on someone's wounds?

What do you think about the future?

Hey sir, have you ever thought about the future and what you thought happened all the way you thought? There must be a perfect environment for determining the future and the one who has that environment gradually moves towards his destination. By the way, if you are so worried about the future, instead of asking a question, describe your experience so that it can be used as a guide.

So why did he get ahead of you?

Comparing and being in front of people makes it rebellious and discouraging anyway, everyone has different abilities and everyone succeeds on their own. Comparing one person to another is tantamount to breaking personality. Indigenous mothers and some indigenous fathers in particular do this when they scold the child and compare him to the neighbor's child, which discourages the child.

Why do you look so sick of shape?

It is one thing to offer condolences to someone who is ill, but it is quite another to ask a question in a crowded place. If that poor person is healthy, he will listen to you and become a victim of tension for free.

So be happy and in order to share happiness, it is necessary to suppress your unnecessary and harmful curiosity a little. Thanks!

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